This past Saturday my wife and I were among several thousand guests attending Southeast Missouri State University's spring circus (commencement). Past programs were very refined and respectful. Even with periodic "cat calls" as the young graduates crossed the stage of honor, all was still respectful.

This spring was different. The program began promptly at 2 p.m., yet by 3:40 p.m. dignitaries had only mentioned their own accomplishments; a well-scripted self-back-patting session. Almost 1,400 graduates were yet to be acknowledged. The audience became somewhat restless, but still respectful.

As the individual recognitions began, a single line of graduates marched to the stage for handshakes with dignitaries. Something was different. Handshaking completed, most of the graduates, along with their guests, immediately departed the auditorium. No returning to their seats and being respectful of those you were yet to graduate. Graduates were even observed in the audience, visiting with guests, while the ceremony continued.

At 5 p.m. the end came with less than 30 percent of graduates or guests remaining in the auditorium. Was this the new "me" society? The actions described demonstrate a lack of respect for all who attended. While I will agree the circus was much too long, there are some things in life that one simply must endure. Saturday afternoon I was ashamed to be a former SEMO staff member and alumni. All involved should be above this. Those of you who departed early were a disgrace to the entire ceremony. To those who endured, my compliments.

Thomas M. Murray, St. Louis