LETTERS: REMEMBERING LEONARD SANDER

To the editor:

Upon reading the article in the Southeast Missourian noting the death of our friend, Leonard Sander, I was struck with pride that he listed as one of his major contributions to our community the establishment of the Cape Girardeau County Public Health Center. Pride, not surprise.

Upon my arrival in Cape Girardeau 28 years ago, Leonard and Eileen Sander were among the first people I met.

Later, when I became the public health nurse for the then-demonstration unit, the Sanders and I became close friends. This was over 20 years ago. As we visited together, Leonard became increasingly interested in the potential a local health department could have for Cape Girardeau County. As a member of the County Commission and a personal friend, he became supportive in many ways. In 1986, all three commissioners -- Leonard, Gene Huckstep and Ronnie Fischer -- put considerable emotional and physical support and encouragement in the finally successful passage of the mil tax to support it. Typical of them, the Sanders as friends and on personal time walked the sidewalks with us educating the public of the positive impact the health department would have for our community. I got several calls from them informing me of yet another great site to place a "Vote For" sign, and if I was going in another direction, often they installed it for us. On the night of the election, do you have to guess who came down to the courthouse to sit with Loretta, Bill and me to anxiously await the results? One of the biggest hugs I've ever received came from Leonard that night. He was all smiles, and how those eyes flashed with pride.

As you've read before, all three county commissioners were extraordinarily supportive, both as a unit and as individuals. I love each of them dearly for similar and different reasons.

Leonard was my quite buddy but quite capable of playing pranks on an unsuspecting public health nurse. His best one: Being behind the desk of the commissioners repairing wiring when I arrived one morning seeking yet more advice from my mentors. Assuming he was absent, I proceeded with my presentation (no longer trembling in their presence). A few moment passed when a hand came up from behind the desk. Then Leonard's head popped up. Shocked and thinking Leonard had fallen, I asked Gene and Ronnie to assist their comrade up (actually, it was more of a demand), whereupon Gene placed his hand on Leonard's head and jokingly pushed him back down. I must have looked truly amazed at what I witnessed, as all three men quick gave belly laughs. It became a favorite story they loved to repeat to others.

When enjoying good jokes and laughter, Leonard was also serious and an excellent problem solver. He was dedicated to his family, friends and community. Having the appearance of a lamb, he possessed the heart and soul of a lion: courageous, committed, able to focus quickly, identifying resolutions for any issue. Leonard's life was a shining example for all to strive for.

He never gave less than 100 percent in any aspect or project. He was always positive, never negative in his attitude toward any issue. If it didn't seem right, there was seldom criticism, only good suggestions of another avenue to follow. His willingness to tackle problems and his love of community and its people have produced a legacy for Cape Girardeau County we will enjoy all of our lives. His ever-present smile and warm handshake assured you of your importance to him.

Gen. Robert E. Lee told his officer, "Do your duty in all things. You cannot do more. You should never wish to do less." To me Leonard Sander was my living example of this advice. How we will miss this great person.

CHARLOTTE CRAIG

Cape Girardeau